To become a winner in life correctly, you shall recapture your aplomb by yourself. You shall establish worth target for yourself and quite a confident; even that appears bagatelle at winks others. There are many person want thing to gets instant, they want all the way easy. If at initially he tries to do something with vehement, apparently then he inappropriate result expectation; so he is to be cured. Then he tries to arouse again, and baffled again; finally this person can quite a frustration ... and decides to stop his try.
I take from Al-Qur'an, one that constitute this the commandment of God: "Most verily after that handicap is upcoming an easy, after failing must become to success." See that, God just was really bear out, that after handicap must become to easy. After failing must become a success. After drubbing must upcoming triumphal. After sadness must upcoming a joy. Believe!
So by principle, it will never happening; someone do ever be in the mire or adversity. Myself really believe this the commandment of God, it is impossible that God give the destiny to man for do ever get handicap or failing ... that may not. So if in the beginning you try an effort and then get a fail, you must substitute with other plan, a new one and try again ... try again. You never give up to ever be try again.
Criticize this at the mind of you, if your plan get fails, that just drubbing temporary; these are not bust permanent. Shortly makes a better new plan. Then begins again from the beginning. Temporary drubbing real just matter one thing, that is something that don't all done with your plan. There are many person never successful in term whatever, because they never do even try; or once to try and fail, then they stop to try. There are many reason to give up. They fear to try again, or fear of baffled again.
So then they think about that, maybe they shall out and out in any kind earlier, get a new try effort; even when first time to try something. Men such a perceives that they shall out and out before in preparation and all something it ... then get a new try? Pose will be the best one and out and out actually good only, if attitude most conceive of reflection form of self control that we can better and more developed in each effort which we do. It's a lovely thing only that done.
But attitude that over high lift this perfection (perfectionism) will beget failing on yourself. You become always fear for beginning to act, since perceives your preparation was perfect, perceive havn't a while it for initiating because was fledged its stupidness ... and still a lot of think which does ever show weakness flank and lack for you; this is still reducing ... that is a less and any other as it. On eventually you even will fear to yourself ... and in turn of you will be kept quiet at even place.
Remember! You will never success in any area, if you don't treat yourself as a human. Slip up is a human; no man which releases from fault or lack even. "No body is perfect ", this has you to understand it. This perfection is a really lovely thing, but perfectionism is a schizophrenia.
This essential in here is, you can study from that fault; can analyse things which that needs to be fixed, then arouses again with vehement to try again. If you default for initiating or stop before you until to the effect; there is no one shall be blamed, besides your own. Accountability utterly lies on your own. Remember this: Never stop try! Don't be easily give up. Try again ... try again ... try as a continually. There are certain that After the Handicap Must Become the Easy. After failing must become to success.
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Selamat pagi mas... Kabar saya sangat bugar. saya harap mas juga semakin sukses di tahun mendatang. sudah bikin dreambook mas? .... btw... tulisan mas di inspirasi indonesia bagus2 lho mas... trims ya.
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